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Friday, November 14, 2014

HOLIDAYS: FAMILY GATHERING PLANNED for THANKSGIVING DAY!

...Thanksgiving this year at Betty's home at 2 pm.  
Please know that you are all welcome!
Help spread the word to everyone else in our family.  
If you would, please let Betty and me know what you can bring.  
I am cooking a couple of turkeys, my sis Aurora is making the stuffing, 
... that is all I know right now.  
If you want, call Betty and check with her, 
but still let me know so that I can keep updating the info  
on our Dominguez Family Blog and via Facebook for those on that social media site.  
Love to all and 'cannot wait to see each and everyone of you.

Thursday, November 13, 2014

Dora's Corner: Butterflies Waiting to be Set Free: If You Like Someone...Tell Them NOW!

"Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye."

One of my college classmates was telling me of a recent event that has created quiet a quandary in her life of late.  She is seriously attracted to one of her other classmates.  The problem right away is the fact that they are of the same-gender; a fact that I see no problem with because as I told her: "love is love!"  I must admit that I rather enjoyed my conversation with her.  I loaned my advice only upon request.  I told her that the worst thing that could happen if she reached out to this person was that the person did not return the same affections, but at least she (my friend) would know the truth.  IMO, the unknown is often worse than the opposite.  Unrequited feelings is something that will probably bring angst to my college friend's life, but in due time, she will overcome and life will revert to normal.  Whatever that is this thing people dub "normal"!

I told her about the synopsis surrounding the love story about the butterflies.  A brief explanation...there once was a young man who liked this other young man, both in the same grade in high school, but he never had the guts to approach him because of being of the same-sex.  The first young man eventually graduated college and became a successful attorney (never married), but still he thought about the other young man.  One day, while the first young man (now a man in his early 30s) is waiting for his train to arrive at the depot, he spots his crush.  The other young man has turned into a dashing gentleman (also in his 30s), and is dressed quite debonair.  The first gentleman approaches the man who long captured his fancy, and it turns out that the second man also had an attraction to the first man.  I told my friend that I was not going to tell her the ending because it is not yet known...the two are still together and are very happy.
Bottom line, I told my college friend to just approach the other person, and go for it.  I told her to be mindful, respectful, and gentle.  If the feelings are not mutual, she needs to accept it, and whatever relationship is mutually attainable at that point.  But, to be ready to lose a friend in case the other person cannot accept such a revelation, and freaks out.  A true friend might freak, but will eventually return to the nice, safe domain of a true friendship if such ever did exist.  
Notwithstanding, if things do go well between my friend and her crush, upon certain feelings being exposed, then kudos to them both, and may they be as happy as butterflies no longer waiting to be set free.
Here is a link to a funny story I read a while ago: How to Tell if You Genuinely Like Someone

Wednesday, November 12, 2014

Self-Indulgence: Being Successfully Wise or Wisely Successful!

"Along with success comes a reputation for wisdom." ~ Euripides

It's just a simple quote to ponder today as we try to stay warm.  As soon as I came home from another eventful day at college, I read and wrote.  One of my favorite things to do is to get organized, so yeah, I am overkill in that department.  But it is okay (for me) because it keeps me busy, and it makes me better at my job and with my college work.  
The ability to be organized is one of the examples, quizzas, that Euripides was referring to in his aforementioned quote.  If so, hooray for me.  J.K. However, I still procrastinate - so no one come out with ribbons or prizes for me because I have my faults; many faults.  
As I touched upon regarding the weather, it has been a little chilly for the last two days, but not too bad.  I have pulled out my leather jacket and worn it only because the wind has been prickly and the wind chill has been contemptuously beating down on one's skin ; ominous weather to come, that is for certain.  
I believe that the weather (more like "whether") forecasters are touting the fact that another cold front is fast approaching our area, thus making it cold for the next few days.  To that comment and to that idea, I say: "bring it on, Windy and Gus!"  Windy for the harsh winds that blow from her belly, working ever so passionately and arduously to get all the attention that she can because her time for swagger is quick and abrupt.  I often tell my 20 year old niece that Windy is never invited to events, yet...there she is.  As for Gus, well, Windy is the nemesis to Gus.  Gus's soft winds are quiet and shallow and lesser traits of this mellow zephyr.  While the almighty Windy blows vast amounts of strong winds, Gus is timidly blowing soft spurts of nothingness.  
Oh, do not ask what that was about...I am entitled to moments of "WTF!"

Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Dora's Corner: Filing and Cabinets: No, It Is Not Administrative Professionals' Day! The State of Texas is Readying for 84th Legislative Regular Session 2015!

Okay, let's get this straight, I attended the politically-lead classroom meeting this afternoon for extra credit; not that I need it, but I do like seeing politicians in person to hear what they have to say.  The politician may not always be a member of the same political party with which I define myself and give my support and allegiance; however, I allow myself an open mind, and I listen to "the other guy." Often bored, but I listen.
Anyhow, the meeting was lead by the District 82 (Republican) HoR who represents Midland and surrounding areas.  Let's leave names out of it, if you will.  You may take whatever meaning you want from that last statement.  It is a play on words.  Think about it.  You can either think I was refraining from calling the HoR a bad name - or - that his name is not important enough for me to write down.  Think of it as we, John Lennon fans, feel about John's murderer; the murderer is not important enough to mention, and by not mentioning "his" name, Lennon fans refrain from lending the s.o.b. killer any credibility or notoriety; both things that the s.o.b. was seeking.  It is a credo started by John's widow, Yoko Ono, and famous Beatles band mate, Paul McCartney.  I kid the people...I would never call a politician an s.o.b. or an ass (unless he deserved it), but I would neither dare put the District 82 HoR in the same category as the one and only (legendary) John Lennon; "Imagine!"  I merely decided not to write the D-Rep's name down because his political views and platform differ greatly from mine.  Besides, I do not see "him" putting my name down on his blog.
Anyway...back from my tangent...

First Day of Filing Draws More Than 350 Bills:

This story captured my attention enough for me to post about it.  I only wish that I had not arrived a bit late to the meeting with the District 82 Rep, or I would have referred to it (the story about the 250 bills filed) because, man, did I have a lot of questions.  I hate arriving late to anything - it rattles me and mucks up my feung shui and my ability to function.  I was late because I had to tutor someone in the Learning Center (a.k.a. library), and before I knew it, the time for the meeting to start was five minutes past.  FYI - the library is my sanctuary, all my friends and family know where to find me if I am not in class or answering my cell (LOL).  (another tangent?!!)
I almost decided not to attend the politically-based meeting with the D-82 Rep, as I stated, I do not need extra credit (I have a 4.0 in my gov't class), but something was nagging me to go anyway.  I am glad I did.  I always look forward to seeing my government professor, he has so much to teach and excellent stories to share (especially outside the classroom).  It makes the professor happy to see some of his students at these events especially when he has announced them during class; his is big on civil duties and participation.  I also got to see my study-buddy there.  He is a nice guy.  He is from Mexico, and has a lot to teach as well.  Soon he will be able to vote, and I plan on bringing him over to the blue-side of politicking.  I wish I could have drawn other millennials to the Dem-party during this past Mid-term election.  The younger gens need to start taking government seriously and showing up to vote.  I was passionate about politics when I first started college years ago so I do not subscribe to the idea that young people (20-30) do not vote because: "they are young, they have no interest in politics at this age, and that young people are not affected by politics; therefore, they do not participate."  Bullshit is what I say to that crap.  Politics is important and every person matters and every vote does count.  Remember the "paradox of participation."
Click on the title above to see what kind of bills were filed for probable review by the legislature when they meet on January 13th to start the Regular Session.  Wow, 140 days of nonsensical jibber-jabber and probably getting no real work done - again.  LOL.

Monday, November 10, 2014

Self-Indulgence: You Say You Dislike Ppl Sans Social Skills, But You Are One of Them: #SocialMediaFrenzy!

I get a kick (pardon the idiom) out of students who complain about social media (i.e. Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn, Instagram, etc...) and texting.  Most students in one of my hybrid courses say that people just need to put down their cell phones and start communicating (face-to-face) with other people around them.  That is a huge ROTFLMAO - IMO and a big ole joke.   The same students add how they stay clear of social media sites, and then they go on to explain why they "supposedly" refrain from social media.  However, I doubt that staying clear of social media is truly their stance.  In theory, the students might think that they are steering clear of social media and an over-abundance of texting; yep, this could be how the students view themselves as they stand on an imaginary soap box, but they are WRONG!
Either the students are posting their views while they are in a drunken stupor, and they cannot be held liable for the untruths that they spew (or write down) - or they are plain lying.  I vote for the latter reason; liars, they be!
Bottom line is that I do not see valid proof of what they are "pontificating" against because when I arrive to one of my classes (esp the one that contains the majority of the students who cut-down social media and such), well, their actions speak louder than words.  The actions, BTW, is that every single solitary student is texting, gaming, surfing the WWW, or doing anything minus communicating via that one-on-one that they chided us about via a college-required blog post.  
I would gladly talk to anyone, but I am not going to always make the first move.  I am a believer in equal opportunity, so yeah, I have done my share and reached out to the students...my experiment going forward (until the semester ends) is to see how many of these students will open up any verbal dialog with me.  It will be interesting.
Anyway...shake it off, guys!  Stop trying to be someone you are not, and just admit that you are social media whores and texting fanatics. 
Instead, the thing that you could improve upon, in the meantime, is your awful spelling and grammar, your awful misuse of words, and your appalling sentence structure, and on, and on, and on...Let go of whatever disdain you might have for those who are comfortable and secure with themselves to freely admit that they (we) love social media and such, and instead focus on improving on your writing skills.  Maybe your pathetic writing skills is really what keeps you off social media sites.  Pobresitos!
This gif is for you, "pontificators and liars"

Sunday, November 9, 2014

Dora's Corner: Writing Well: RYW: Represent Yourself Well!

Warning: Long post...dead ahead...
I am astonished at how many college students lack a sense of writing and/or good writing skills.  I often partake of peer reviews which includes editing papers for mechanics and grammar, and as doing as such, I am mostly met with moments of: “SMH!”
In today’s social media, hashtag e-world, we all know that SMH is the acronym for: “Shaking My Head”.  Heck, some millennials not only lack the ability to write well, or at all, but some are impacted with a lackadaisical disability which severely impacts their sense to write words in their entirety.  Possibly that is why they revert to using acronyms.  Perhaps their time is much too important to spend on writing out every single solitary word.  But, no, I disagree.  I realize and accept why words are cut short; texting.  Texting has to be done so quick that one has to short-cut many words to send a quick text or reply to a text.
I accept that justification (of short-cutting words) when it pertains to texting, and I have come to the realization and acceptance of why one must short-cut words via social media as well...short-cutting via the likes of Facebook might not always be done due to time-constraints, but to be cool.  However, unless one is "tweeting" and only has 140 characters with which to get one’s point across, then a person's purpose for posting updates with acronyms is shamefully to appear cool.  Those who subscribe to the idea of short-cutting words through acronyms and such might think that they appear cool (and uncaring because uncaring is cool these days), but in reality, they appear hindered from living in the real world, quizzas!
IMO (there I go with an acronym, but it is justified here)...millennials short-cutting words and phrases to appear cool is okay - if that is how they will fit into today's society (or lack of society), then more power to the millennials.  But to add, I do not really  wish to know what someone was trying to convey in a silly, short-cut phrase via social media.  Instead, maybe stay clear of social media, or for certain, just keep your post to yourself, because I am not going to read it.  Take that (acronym) “ROTFLMAO” and shove it!
If one is on another social media site other than Twitter, one should really not short-cut one’s words.  When you think about it, short-cutting one’s own words is under-cutting one’s own ideas and views. It becomes self-stifling.  If we do not want others to undermine our ability to write and express our opinions (i.e. rights given Americans via The First Amendment) then why would we allow ourselves to self-edit what we have to say!  If one is going to write on a social media site or perchance on a blog, then would it not be more correct and proper to translate word-for-word what one has to say instead of using acronyms and such for which others might not know the meaning.  Writing well not only includes: proper sentence structure, mechanics, and grammar, but it also includes the ability to express one’s intended purpose(s); to explain!  What the story/post/update means is up to the writer to translate properly in order for the reader to understand.  If a reader has to look up a word, and decides to go with the incorrect definition of a word (or acronym), then most likely he or she will lose the meaning of the entire piece.  I.E. the piece gets lost in translation.
A good writer will properly and thoroughly interject his or her views onto a piece of writing and leave little chance of losing the audience or having his or her ideas get muddled.  One must define one’s writing as one defines oneself.  Perhaps the lack of translating what one has to write onto paper stems from one’s lack of knowing himself or herself...the lack of not having fully and properly defined oneself.
Anyway, if a person is hell-bent with his or her purpose to keep short-cutting words and using acronyms while texting or via social media sites, at least try to improve on one’s grammatical skills.  Most importantly, if one is going to write a paper for school and such or to blog, be mindful of one’s audience and remember that one must put one’s best foot forward.  Write, read, rewrite, reread, and be mindful which people are reading the piece; one's audience could include fellow students and writers, or professional readers and writers, professors, or someone waiting to discover the next J.K. Rowling.  Write eloquently, be respectful, and be professional.  Refer to and please remember the post I wrote on this very blog not long ago: “Contractions are for Pregnant Women…” and also refrain from using contractions and such.
Rereading is another rule in English 101, if one rereads a piece he or she just wrote, and if the piece does not sound or read well or fails to convey the message for which it was intended, then chances will favor the odds that others will not be able to understand or comprehend the piece either.
For certain, find, correct and omit the misspelled words.  My pet peeve; simple spelling errors that go uncorrected.  People who spell badly despite the fact that everyone has equal access to programs that will check one’s spelling (and grammar – a fragment is for software developers and for math - not for English), and do not correct the errors, well, they irk me.
When reading other people's updates, stories, or blog posts, the moment I get to a misspelled word or to a badly structured sentence, I lose interest and move on to something else.  If I do not read your essays, updates, tweets, or posts, it is your fault – not mine!

Saturday, November 8, 2014

Dora's Corner: Writer’s Craft: The Art of Writing.

Warning: Long post...dead ahead...
I love writing.  I have been in love with the concept since I was a sophomore in high school.  The tenth grade was when one of my English teachers took notice of my ability to write well; the teacher especially took notice of my affinity for writing.  She encouraged me to write almost all the time, but foolish me, I did not have enough sense to allow myself to believe her…much less to accept her verbal accolades of my writing skills.  I let her praise of my writing ability go wayward simply because she was the mother of my best buddy.  “She had to be lying to me, right?”…that was how I would justify not taking my writing skills more serious.
Through-out high-school as I moved up a grade and into my upperclassman years, I continued to write, but I kind of put the teacher’s words aside; however, the English marm’s words still lived inside of me despite the fact that I remained hesitant, foolish, and scared to heed her positive feedback and perceptions.  The tiny little creative creatures that reside in my head would often, and silently, spew their echoes of what the English teacher had told me on several occasions about my excellent writing skills, and I would allow myself to gradually believe the wonderful teacher’s words of praise and encouragement.
It took several more years for me to believe that I did possess a wonderful craft for writing.  These days, as my love for reading and writing has greatly increased, I pay close and finite attention to what other regular people, similar to myself (non-professional, non-published) are writing.  I am amazed at how other people write.  While some are naturally able to jot down exactly what they are trying to express and convey with a keen sense and style of elocution, other people struggle so much.  Those who struggle often do not have a passion for writing, but then there are those who love writing, yet, they are unable to interpret their ideas into words then onto paper.
The latter type of writer used to be me a long time ago until I decided that it was time to take more serious the very thing which brought out my most passionate side; writing.&nbsFp; Though I struggled with the mechanics of writing, and sometimes with basic grammatical skills, my love for writing never diminished or faded regardless of my lack of proper mechanics and grammar.  I carried onward, and if anyone had issues with my writing, well: “it was their fault - not mine!” – or so I thought.  These days I work hard on improving my mad writing skills because I do care what others think.  English 101 rule #1 is to be mindful of one’s reading audience.  That rule is one that I carry with me all the time now.  Not only is it wired into my brain, carved into my heart, but I keep a tangible copy of it on my person at all times.  I not only know the rule, but I live the rule. 
Words are beautiful…and when done properly, writing opens up a world to everyone where nothing is improbable and the lack of doing something or not being able to make something happen is merely due to the lack of one’s imagination.  Imagine if you will, if someone or something had convinced good writers such as Asimov, Auden, Austen, Bradbury, The Brontës, Brown, Herbert, King, Plath, Rice, Rowling, Tolkien, Verne, or Wells that their works of art where nothing but a bunch of gibberish!  Imagine where our world would NOT be had anyone dared tell any of them such a horrid thing, and worse, imagine if anyone of those writers had listened and not written his or her respective "magnum opus"!  Living in a world sans any of their great works - or without the works of many other writers - is not a world where I would like to reside.  “Love Thy Writer’s Craft!”

Friday, November 7, 2014

Dora's Corner: Rock the Vote: Voting Goes Awry…More Like Vote Missed the Rock.

Well, the National Mid-Term election returns were a bit unsettling this past Tuesday (Nov 6, 2014); however, here in the great state of Texas, things were not so disturbing only because politics and voting remained status quo.  In other words, the “good ole boy network” won in a (landslide victory) by securing a statewide triumph for all republican candidates.  Yes, the “good ole boy network" was at its best slinging mud and spewing untruths about Democratic candidates in order to demagogue their way towards ensuring that every single Republican/Tea Party candidate was victorious over any Democratic candidate.  Sadly, any Democratic candidate who dared try to run against his or her cronie-conservative counterpart was found on the losing side of these mid-terms, and that includes the one and only Wendy Davis who ran in the gubernatorial race.  I canvassed for her, did the grassroots collaborating for her, and did the door-to-door politicking for Davis, but it was all done to no avail.  Nonetheless, I would do the same thing even if I had a crystal ball advance warning that Davis was going to lose.  Regardless of how many percentage points that Davis lost by (and I had the pre-warning via a crystal ball), I would have still supported Davis and canvassed for her.  I subscribe to the “paradox of participation” because I firmly believe that all qualified persons (VAP/VEP) should have a moral obligation embedded within themselves to vote.  Voting should not only be viewed as one’s civil obligation, but it should be something one wants to do regardless of what the turn-out might be.  For example, here in Texas, Democratic or Third-Party candidates seldom have a chance to win versus the Conservative-crew, but it does not mean that the Democratic Party (or Third-Party i.e. “La RAZA”) does not pursue to elect its own candidate to represent their respective Party, their ideals, and their platform.  To conclude, despite any political party not having a chance to have their candidate elected does not mean that a member of that political party should not vote.  One always needs to vote; strong Democrats were always going to vote for Wendy Davis regardless of the polls or rumor mill that had her losing to Abbott by a substantial margin.  Rock the vote means exactly what it states, one must shake up the very structure of voting in order to impact the turn-out and the way politicians make choices for us their constituents.  Bottom line, if one does not vote…one does not get the right to bitch.

Friday, October 31, 2014

In Memoriam: Rest In Peace: Dian Reed (Pecos, Texa)

It would be remiss of me not to post about the death of my dear friend, Dian.  No matter how short our time as friends, what she meant to me makes up for it in vast numbers.  I plan to post a special dedication to Dian in the days to come, but for now, I just want everyone to know that this special lady passed away on Friday, October 31, 2014.  If you knew Dian, the fact that she went home to meet her Maker on Halloween has a rather funny meaning.  I prefer - quizzas - to keep the details behind that humorous story to myself.
Rest in peace dear, sweet, wonderful, and oh so very important friend of mine.
Dian McClurkin Reed
  • February 16, 1928 - October 31, 2014
  • Pecos, Texas